Dog of My Dreams
September 11th, 2008Daydreaming about yourself and your new puppy? What are your goals and aspirations? What greatness will you two accomplish together?
My clients talk to me about their dog visions of the future. Plans and goals they have for themselves and their new dog. As their puppy coach this is very important information for me. I will even say one of the most important questions that I ask them.
The answers are often similar, keeping in mind my clients live in a major metropolitan city. They look forward to long leisurely walks together. Great fun at the park and the beach and the cottage – the new addition staying close, checking in and certainly coming at the speed of light when he is called. Later on their doggie athlete running with them so they both get their exercise.
Other athletic goals consist of playing great games of fetch with a tennis ball or sophisticated games of ‘find it’ followed by a kick ass game of tug. Here I add, with hard fast rules in place that include always letting go of the toy when asked followed by a sit and never jumping to grab the toy – but waiting nicely until given the cue to ‘take it’.
Sometimes my clients have kids, sometimes they don’t. Whether they are here, not here yet, or never will be, everyone wants their dog to be well behaved around youngsters. Everyone also wants a well-behaved dog around guests to the homestead. Some of my clients want to be able to take their dog to the groomer and have him be relaxed as he gets beautified. None of them want their new companion developing that horrible allergic reaction to the vet clinic where dread takes over and you can barely get your adult dog inside as he pulls with all his might, panting with stress, eyes bulging from his head, thinking to himself, “Oh No! Oh No! Not again! Please if there is a dog in heaven! Not again!”
Other plans include doing errands together to dog-friendly stores and their new dog pal lying by their chair enjoying the neighborhood café patio as they sip coffee, read the paper or meet with friends.
Other folks share more elaborate goals of having their dog serve as a therapy dog, going into homes for the aged or hospitals to be petted and loved and bring that special dog magic dogs can bring to those in need. Some of my clients aim to compete in agility or Frisbee competitions. To all of this I say Yes! Yes! Yes! Lets get started! Let me help you raise the dog of your dreams.
When you have a brand new puppy you have a blank canvas upon which to paint your masterpiece. Certainly your dog deserves it and for sure he will love you for it. That is the beauty of doing a great job raising a puppy, what a lovely bond it creates between you and your dog.
Here are some pointers that can help you get started, pass them on to any friends or family that are thinking of getting a puppy or have one on the way. It takes a village to raise a puppy too.
Get out in public with your puppy – it is a must as far as socializing goes, but take it further – go to the patio of your favorite coffee shop and work on ‘down’ for a few minuets, head into the bank or the bookstore or your pet supply store. Find every public dog-friendly environment you can, go there with your puppy and teach him how to behave there. If you want your dog to lie down and relax in public – you have got to work him in public as a puppy. This holds true to playing with you in the park or at the beach. Teach your puppy the things you want him to do in the places that you want him to do it.
When it comes to vet visits, gentle reader, please have mercy on your dog. Go to the vet often with your new puppy, without an appointment, just for fun. Play a quick game that your pup enjoys. Have the staff give him fabulous treats and tummy rubs. Make sure that you give your pup treats when the vet is examining him and that the Doc also offers treats. Put yourself in his paws, who likes going to the doctor?
Get yourself hooked up with a great coach, start teaching your young puppy the fundamentals like sit and down and stand. Teach him to walk on a loose leash and to come quickly to you when you call him. Teach the basics of retrieve and find it and continue to build on this, slowly, becoming more sophisticated.
If you don’t have kids introduce your puppy to kids, kids and more kids, have them handle the pup, and ask him to do something simple like sit. Teach him to lie down when he meets little kids and use a verbal cue like ‘gentle’ as they handle him, be sure and give him treats.
If therapy dog work or organized dog sports are on your mind for the future, contact a professional that specializes in these areas and ask them what you can start to do with your new puppy right now to ready him for these goals.
So make a list of all of the things that you want to do with your dog - a vision board for you and your puppy. Get started now. You have places to go and people to meet. Remember to have fun and to always have treats!



